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  The Most Powerful Force In The Universe Challenge

  Feature Article: Choosing Among Your Multiple Personalities

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SUCCESS!
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from Robin Jones,
MFA & Certified Life Coach

Volume III, issue 10
October 2006

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The Most Powerful Force In The Universe Challenge
You've heard me say in previous issues that I believe the
most powerful force in the universe to be Imagination.
Everything humans have ever created began with an idea, a
vision for something that didn't exist before. I mean
everything. Orville and Wilbur Wright didn't accidentally
make an airplane. Martin Luther King, Jr. didn't lead the
civil rights movement without a vision of equality and
justice. The computer or paper you're reading this on right
now came about as the result of someone imagining a better
way to communicate.

OK that's what I believe. But I'm open to other candidates
for The Most Powerful Force in the Universe. So I want to
hear from you: what do you think it is, and why? Love?
Creativity? Courage? Justice?

Write me at robin@robinjones.biz and let me know. Next
month's article will contain excerpts, so share your opinion
and experiences.

 
Feature Article: Choosing Among Your Personalities
I have a judge. I have a jury. I suppose I have an
executioner too; I'm just thankful I haven't met him yet.

I also have a sixteen-year-old James Dean wannabe, a seducer
of beautiful women, a cross-legged top-of-the-mountain guru,
a smirking skeptic, a fierce tiger, and a whole lot of other
folks that show up inside me. They each put in an
appearance depending on the situation at hand and try to
take over, pushing for their own agenda.

It's my curious explorer that's showing up right in this
moment to help me write this; I feel a little like Magellan,
sailing across the uncharted waters of my mind. This is
when writing-getting to communicate something to you, my
lovely readers-becomes the most fun. It feels like sitting
in the sunshine with my laptop, a peach smoothie, and a
liberated mind and body.

It's when I let my judge get involved in the process that I
get in trouble. I wouldn't really call it trouble, but when
I allow him to call the shots, he sometimes puts me in a
jail of my own making. This feels more like sitting in my
concrete basement, chained to the washing machine, writing
with a pencil that keeps breaking.

Here's the process in a nutshell: 1. I write a few
paragraphs with the intention of giving you, the reader,
something valuable to mull over. 2. My judge shows up and
either approves or tells me it's no good, in fact that my
readers will think I'm a crackpot. In fact, as I write
this, I realize that when my judge is there, I make you into
my judge and absolve myself of responsibility for the
criticism. 3. I quit enjoying the creative process of
writing and my creativity shuts down. 4. I either (a)
struggle through and get the article done, (b) quit for a
while and come back later, or (c) ask my judge to take a
hike and surrender myself back to my curious explorer.

Of course, the key here is awareness. So often in my life
I'm not aware of what's going on in my mind or body or
heart. I'm just immersed in whatever I'm doing without
being present to how I feel and what I think.

So when my judge shows up to criticize my writing and I'm
not aware of it, my writing suffers, as does my mood, and
the results are far from what I want. It's only when I
become aware that my judge has arrived that I can choose
something else.

I can choose something else. For my money, that's perhaps
the most important element in creating a successful life.
Becoming aware of what's going on and if that's not what I
want, consciously choosing something else.

One of the greatest discoveries I've made in the process of
discovering all these personalities popping up in my mind
was that while they are all part of me, I am not them. "I
have a skeptic that I can choose to listen to or not," is
quite different from, "I'm a skeptical person," which
implies that I am powerless to be any other way. This way,
I get to welcome my skeptic into my life without fighting to
be someone different.

So where am I now? I'm aware that each of you will have
your opinion of what you are reading in this moment. Some
of you will take something valuable away, some won't. My
judge is around, but not saying much. What I choose is that
I'll keep focusing on providing something of quality, and
just as important, the rich, warm feeling I get from feeding
my creative explorer. That's success for me.

What success do you choose?

Attached is a worksheet to help you look at that question,
and who shows up to make it happen. It's in PDF format, so
you may need to download a fr^ee reader from Adobe.com.

Until next month, keep choosing the inner-folks that bring
you success,

RJ


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